Wednesday, July 19, 2017

“Yes, I’m a Millennial. So what?”

I've begun to lose track of how many times "my generation" has been labeled as "millennials."   It's a fairly generic word in the English vocabulary meant to classify those born between 1981-2001, or at least it used to be.  Today it is grouped with certain characteristics.  According to businessdictionary.com, millennials are “more likely to lean liberal in their political ideology, less likely to practice religion than previous generations, and grew up in the age of technology and therefore are very versed in technology.”  This makes sense to a degree, given the changing technological and political landscapes.

Our parents didn’t grow up with Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  They didn’t interact through a screen with people on a daily basis whom they might never actually meet in person. They also grew up in a time period where it was not yet possible to elect an African American president or believe that a woman could run for office.  Does that somehow make them naïve or close-minded?  No, it doesn’t because climates change.  Labels change.  Even laws change.  So why then did the term “millennial” become so negative?  When did it become associated with laziness and entitlement?  

We are the age of social media, glued to our phones 24/7 as some would say, lost in our own self-absorption to not care about what’s going on in the real world.  We’re more likely to be sipping lattes at a coffee house then reading a book.  Or are we? 

Our generation is also more likely to have student loan debt and not be working in the career we thought we’d be in after earning our college degrees.  I will probably be 82 before I finish paying off my loans but that’s how it is.  It doesn’t make me entitled.  It has opened my eyes to the realization that I must continue to find new ways of creating and defining myself.

Who created these stereotypes?  Society.  You know what I have to say to society?  Look at me.  I worked my butt off to get to where I am today.  I didn’t get that “dream job” out of college, but I did get a job and worked my way up, all the while realizing that my job will never define me.

Labels come in all shapes and sizes, but what really matters is how you choose to define yourself.  I may not be perfect, or have all the answers to whatever life throws in my direction but my path is not yet clearly defined.  And that’s the way I like it.  I’m thankful for the experiences that I’ve gone through (and believe me, there have been my fair share of crappy ones) but one thing I am not is someone who will be put down by what others perceive me to be. 

Yes I love my Starbucks, I probably couldn’t go a day without reaching for my phone, but so what?  I’m still learning that inspiration comes in many ways, some days are better than others, and I have yet to discover the meaning of life.  But one day I’ll be sitting in my rocker blasting Backstreet Boys, or maybe watching Apollo 13 for the zillionth time, going, “I got it right.”  I didn’t change myself to conform to what other people wanted me to be.  I was myself.  

So the next time someone rolls their eyes at you and says, “Oh, you’re such a millennial,” fire back and say, “Why, yes I am,” with your head held high as you sip from your fat free, sugar free, caramel macchiato.  

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

13 Reasons Why Girlboss Will Become Your New Favorite Show

1.  “Love you in case I die.”  Every best friend should have a catchphrase or at least their own hashtag, to not only make others jealous that your friendship will stand the test of time, but also because it just sounds cool.  #rockets
2.  “Know what your shit’s worth cause you just got played.”  This pivotal scene not only sets up the storyline, it is advice that can be applied to everything in life.  Value yourself and your intuition.
3.  Sophia is the definition of female empowerment.  Her matter-of-fact, tell it like it is blunt attitude about life, guys, and everything in between makes her the best friend we always wished we had, and secretly the woman we are all dying to be.  She doesn’t seek approval from others, she doesn’t apologize for who she is, and she never backs down from a challenge.  Hell, we could all take a lesson from her and we should.
4.  Sophia’s witty sarcasm and unpredictable outbursts are what make her so fun, poignant, and relatable.  Hence, “What kind of monster leaves a voicemail?”  I mean, really, can anyone in this century not relate to that comment?
5.   Shane, Sophia’s adorable drool-worthy boyfriend doesn’t allow Sophia to self-sabotage their relationship even when she’s screaming in his face.  Anyone else get “Friends” vibes when he got upset over Sophia eating his French fries?  We’ve all hit rock bottom in some way and wished our significant other wasn’t there to witness it- but there’s something strangely gratifying about watching a grown woman drenched head-to-toe from the rain, holding a bag of a dead woman’s clothing while she asks if there’s something better out there.  Because hey, this is a life-altering 20s something moment, no?  
6.  Sophia is forced to stay at a job she hates so she can get health insurance.  Who can’t relate to reaching for a jar of peanut butter and getting a hernia?
7.  The flashback of how Sophia and Annie became friends prove that all the best relationships come out of a jail cell, or they do on tv at least.  Annie’s ability to see beyond Sophia’s dark makeup and rocker garb was the beginning of something special.
8.  Sophia’s note to her boss Rick: “Thank you for being my favorite boss and my last boss.” It was here that Sophia truly encompassed, “Do what you love.”  Not everyone is meant for the corporate life.  Some are meant to shine as entrepreneurs.
9. The wedding dress episode:  Sophia’s brush with an almost bad review provided comic relief for a perfectly executed episode.  Anyone who has worked retail knows that a bad review can end you and I couldn’t help but laugh at the lengths Sophia goes to ensure that doesn’t happen, including listening to the bride drone on about checking her garments for flaws that were put there by the buyer herself.  Diet Coke anyone?
10.  Nathan and his mom:  They dance, drink wine, and eat ice-cream while singing along to Josh Groban’s “You Raise Me Up.”  They may be cooky, but they are quite the pair.
11. Self-realization moment: Sophia visits her mom only to discover that she has become her, or at least a version of her.  Finally, Sophia has a reason for why she’s so screwed up.  But she also finds it as a reason to finally become an adult.  While this self-defining moment varies from person to person, there’s no doubt we’ve all been there.
12. Scratch everything I said in #5.  Shane is a __.  (Feel free to fill that in with whatever obscenity you like.)  Shane succumbs to the typical stereotypical cheating male and while many can sympathize with Sophia’s pain, her choice of words in telling him just how much of a loser he is takes the cake as one of the best all time breakups on television EVER.
13.  Whatever that weird art exhibit thing is that Nathan creates...  Just trust me, you’ll love it.
To summarize, it’s no fun getting to the top said no one ever.  But it is no fun getting there alone.  In 13 episodes you see Sophia’s up and downs, her meltdowns and her makeups.  But her kickass vision became a reality and that is inspiring.  Girl power!  

Monday, February 13, 2017

OC Ghosts and Legends Presents History, EVPs, and Ghostly Tales of San Juan Capistrano



Spooky music and smoke greeted guests as they entered the historical Camino Real Playhouse on Friday night for the presentation entitled Ghosts and Legends of San Juan Capistrano.  While for some guests it was their first foray into the paranormal, for others, it was the beginning of a long night of investigating.  After the presentation, OC Ghosts and Legends held a closed investigation tryout to recruit new team members.

One such hopeful Jean Gilbert was prepared for her audition, as she immediately saw images in her mind upon walking into the theater.  It is important to note that she had not done any research prior to stepping foot inside the Playhouse.

“1924 kept coming to me,” Gilbert said.

She then described seeing the image of a heavy-set man, with a white mustache, who was smoking a cigar.

When asked to describe how she came across this image, Gilbert said she meditates in a location until she sees a picture, which comes across in a sequence.

Lead investigator and co-founder of OC Ghosts and Legends’ Cristopher August began the presentation by asking the audience to close their eyes and raise their hands if they believed in ghosts.  He then asked everyone to open their eyes and keep their arms raised.  About 90 percent of the audience raised their hands.  August then asked those who didn’t believe to raise their hands.  While the numbers were less, “it’s healthy to be skeptical,” said August, even calling himself a skeptic.  “The logical part of me wants to deny it away.”

Despite what one might think, nothing out of the ordinary happened to August as a child.  It wasn’t until he visited the notoriously “haunted” Queen Mary that he began his start of “really diving into this field.”  Strange events began to happen around him after his visit, including witnessing a coffee cup slide across the table at home.  August began to wonder if he might have brought something home with him.  He half-jokingly referred to the possible ghost that attached to him as Juan Carlos.  He then brought the spirit back to the ship telling it to stay put.

August and Matthew Harvey created OC Ghosts and Legends in 2011, and while their partnership dissolved in 2014, August continued on his quest of investigating the paranormal.  This included expanding his team, whom he introduced next. 

OC Ghosts and Legends includes Andrew Edoff  (recently promoted from Junior Investigator to Core Investigator), Kelly Lynne Harris (field reporter and Junior Investigator), Larry Zamora (Junior Investigator & Utility), and newest member Alison Lehnberg (Project Coordinator).  Roger Woodcock is the Tech Handler as well as a Junior Investigator.  (Kaity Ware handles research and administration, but was not present at the event.)

The presentation itself was both informative and historical in nature.  August was quick to point out that the field of paranormal investigating is one in which nothing is or can be proven.  Even before he began to share the team’s “evidence,” he made it a point to state, “We like you to draw your own conclusions, have your own opinion.”

The presentation opened with a quick video of the history of San Juan Capistrano.  During 1887, the Capistrano Depot as it was known, laid railroad tracks from Los Angeles to San Diego.  Modesto Avila, in protest of the railroad, strung her laundry across the tracks.  In 1925, it was the site of the last great train robbery.  During the 50s restaurants flourished and in the 90s it began to operate both Amtrak and Metrolink.

The second part of the presentation presented evidence from various locations the team has investigated including the restaurant Trevor’s at the Track’s (formerly Sarducci’s), the Arley Leck House, the Vintage Steak House, and the Camino Real Playhouse.

For years the staff at Sarducci’s reported glasses and plates being thrown, as well as hearing disembodied voices.  During the OC Ghosts and Legends investigation, August and a reporter from the Capistrano Dispatch were sitting at a table talking, when a recorder fell and “right here,” was heard.  Just moments earlier, August had requested that if Modesto Avila was there to please move something and was excited that it appeared she was communicating with the team.

Unfortunately, it was too good to be true.  August used the clip to show how important it is during an investigation to know where everyone is as well as where all the cameras and recorders are.  As it turns out, two of the other team members were talking, and the EVP turned out to be part of their conversation.  However, the recorder that fell was still stationary.  Was it Modesto Avila?  Or was there another explanation?  Either way, the clips clearly debunked the possible EVP.

The Arley Leck House was originally located on Ortega Highway, and transported to San Juan Capistrano.  The team has captured several interesting things outside of the house by the shed.  One such audio clip that was played for the audience showed how “evidence” is subjective.  To one audience member, it sounded like a child laughing, while to another it sounded panicky.   

As for the Camino Real Playhouse, the actual site of the presentation, August and his team have investigated it several times. 

“We always feel right at home at the Playhouse.  Not only is it situated in one of the most historic towns in California, we just feel that whatever spirit energy lingers in the Playhouse is positive,” said August.  “All the energy and personality from the dynamic individuals that have walked those halls is apparent.”

While many of the investigations seemed to be quiet, the team often captures voices during regular conversations later on.

“The place is full of ghostly ‘chatter’ which we don’t hear until we play back all our audio data,” August said.  “Some of our most compelling audio EVPs were produced from the Playhouse and to no surprise, Friday night’s investigation has ALREADY returned some crazy audio responses.”

Former Lead Investigator and Graphic Designer of OC Ghosts and Legends Diane Pioch can testify to witnessing this firsthand.

“It always surprises us.  They do sentences.  They mimic you.  It’s wild,” Pioch said.

For those unfamiliar with the terminology used during investigations, August went over the three classes of electromagnetic voice phenomenon, or EVP for short.  Class C was described as, “you hear something, but there’s no comprehension.”  Class B is “arguable.”  Finally, Class A’s said August are “so clear, you might as well be standing next to the ghost.”  He also discussed the term “settling,” which means turning on the equipment for the investigation (i.e. cameras) and then vacating the building.  This allows the team to see what might be moving around inside before they begin their investigation.  Lastly, August described in detail the various equipment the team uses during an investigation, including dousing rods, REM pods, k2 meters, and spirit boxes to name a few.

Whether the evidence was compelling or open to interpretation, the audience seemed to enjoy it.

“I liked how they gave examples of EVPs,” said Susana Barron. 

Unfortunately, the presentation itself had some technical difficulties.

Robby Edsell “believed that the team caught a lot of good EVPs,” but was disappointed that he was not able to hear them well.

Despite the issues, August tried his best to lighten the mood and keep things moving along. 

“It’s no joke that we’re technologically cursed,” he said.  “Everything usually works pretty flawlessly until we get here.”

The audience did look forward to attending more events in the future.

“I’m very interested in what they’re [OC Ghosts and Legends] doing and the places they’re going,” Edsell said.

The last part of the presentation opened it up to the audience for questions and August and his team stuck around to mingle with the guests afterwards, a part of the job he always looks forward to.

“We thrive in discourse with our guests- there’s never a silly or stupid question,” said August. 

As the presentation came to a close, 5 willing hopefuls were ready to put their skills to the test, as they were immersed in their very own investigation.  While time will tell who has what it takes, August was overwhelmed with the response.

“Onboarding new team members and finding the right candidates is not a simple process, not to mention very time consuming, so we wanted to try a different process and see how people work during an actual investigation,” said August.  “It’s equally important to see how applicants interact not just with the public, but with members of our team.”

While August was hopeful with the talent pool, he stressed that the second round of testing is about to begin.

“We saw some strong candidates during the audition, but their work isn’t done yet! The field investigation was the first half.  Now they must conduct their data analysis,” said August.  “We look forward to seeing the results of that.”


Stay tuned to see what OC Ghosts and Legends has in store next!  They are already planning more educational events as well as securing new locations for their next ghost investigations, which you can take part in!  Check out ocghostsandlegends.com for more info!